tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post5076672163284216092..comments2023-08-15T13:40:28.947+02:00Comments on ooh pretty shiny over there ...: todayLaura Evanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00375784047743985910noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post-63488513050039195472010-04-15T09:02:38.158+02:002010-04-15T09:02:38.158+02:00thanks for all your kind words ... & the old c...thanks for all your kind words ... & the old cliches still apply & as as much as hated them being thrown at meal time does heal a lot. But there are moments when something will bring back all those emotions as if it only happened yesterday. I'm sad for my friends who are having to experience this, & in a way that's so impersonal as it's through the internet that we connect. But they're strong people who will find a way through it & come out the other side better for it. Suicide is a very really fact of life & particuarly so in the military, i can only hope that this tragic even will help someone else out there realize it's not a solution, & that peace & happiness can be found through the people we love. xxLaura Evanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00375784047743985910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post-43859805132879030012010-04-15T06:35:54.250+02:002010-04-15T06:35:54.250+02:00Laura I am so sorry you're going through this ...Laura I am so sorry you're going through this again, from a distance, but still... I won't try to make you see what they've done as probably being the only "out" for them, but I will say this, try to banish your anger. If they were ever important to you, then at least let them remain a positive thought in your heart, rather then anger. Just focus on all the good you had with them! Big hugs my darling. xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post-21790953027360740242010-04-15T02:11:27.836+02:002010-04-15T02:11:27.836+02:00laura, this is so sad... and i am so sorry for you...laura, this is so sad... and i am so sorry for you and your friends. you're right, there's nothing anyone can do or say to make it better. i'm glad you're starting to come to terms with it, i can't imagine how difficult it must be. *hugs* i'll be thinking of you.Andrea Krummelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03513717591653797091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post-37848710626694654432010-04-15T00:37:55.313+02:002010-04-15T00:37:55.313+02:00i'm so sorry laura! i feel your pain in your ...i'm so sorry laura! i feel your pain in your post & glad you released some of it by sharing. i've lost someone i loved in that way too & know the pain is muddied by anger. you say "the easy way out" but really try to remember it probably wasn't so. it must be an awful experience to feel so trapped that you believe that's all you can do. don't lose sight of what you had because that one awful act does not define the relationship that once was. please take care of yourself in any way you can.... patpathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00297973128648562782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post-24331754385333365922010-04-15T00:25:03.596+02:002010-04-15T00:25:03.596+02:00I'm so sorry.I'm so sorry.Bows and Sparrowshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00680888725500210434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post-32929729894162268582010-04-15T00:22:45.982+02:002010-04-15T00:22:45.982+02:00So sorry you are having a rough time. :( Sometimes...So sorry you are having a rough time. :( Sometimes these things seem to come in waves.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15233479262926672923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429090276798517845.post-12912218796829182542010-04-14T23:55:41.277+02:002010-04-14T23:55:41.277+02:00wow im so sad for you, i hope things get better fo...wow im so sad for you, i hope things get better for you and your family.Jessica Warrickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07412389197353379472noreply@blogger.com